His behaviour started to change again, he went cold. So I started to walk away again. By now it was July and he told me he was going on holiday with his friends. While he was away he was in contact regularly, including sending his morning messages. I asked if I could come see him, he said when he gets home. I went to see him, he had got a present from his trip and was back to his full on charm. Now in August, I meet him and he starts saying his ex wants to get back with him. I said okay, he should do what is right and by then I knew his ex was his GF!
So he had been lying and cheating…also it was her he went on a holiday with.
So a pathological liar..!!! Silly me agreed to meet him. He misses me and wants me back. He had this opinion that everyone was wrong and always doing him wrong but he never saw what he did bad. He would say he could destroy someone if they hurt him and no one knows what someone is capable off.
I was actually scared of him…but then he would turn charming and caring again. Making me tea, shoulder massages, picking n dropping me home. I got very upset, sent him a message saying not to contact me and blocked him from everywhere. We had spent a whole weekend together got physical etc and within less than 12 hours this happened…at 3am!
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I messaged him at 7am when I saw the pic. Within half hour of my message the pic changed…and he called me ragging…saying I was being stupid, and it was his friends who did that…I should understand him, he would be silly to do that, why would he want to lose me after all that, I need to give him a yes or no answer now if I want to stay with him…he was shouting badly and saying hes not going to apologise to me this time as its not his fault.
I said I cant talk as im upset and at work. I later asked to see him this was test because by now I had worked him out and he said it was too cold and he was at the gym but he can call me and see me the following day. I replied ok…and just blocked him from all contacts. I do know he will be back when he gets bored…he has a very addictive personality and hates to lose.
Sorry for my long message — but what do you think? Sociopath or a typical guy? I have never dated anyone like this before…he lied about everything…even to once saying his cat had died and he needed emotional support. OMG this is my life. I married mine and also met him when he was married to his ex, I just feel like throwing up right now. After I wrote him about a divorce he tried to sell the house without me knowing, I find out by a moving and storage flyer in the mail, I quickly called the realtor and it was pulled off the market.
Next he had some new friends come in with their phones video taping me pretty much doing nothing except waking from the basement to my daughters bedroom, they also tapped the police when they came because I called them. Next he took my dogs. After that when he was served two days later he took the car while I was gone for at BK getting food and Kinneys.
The he tried to freeze me out by locking the door to the computer room where the heat control was. Then he tried sucking the well dry by running the jaquzzi tub for 3 nights straight. I kept papers on all this. OMG this is unreal to me.
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Two years ago he filed for divorce he was taping me constantly. He wanted to try couples counciling but I realized he was using it as a tactical move not to help us. I should have seen all this because he did similar things to his ex wife. He is a complete slob but makes it all pretty and sweet in the beginning of relationships then comes the other side of him.
This is just a very brief description of everything go he has done to me, my daughters and the animals. Take pictures or videos where you can.
Its the mental stimulation thing…when im alone I cant stop thinking about him and how we used to meet up, his sweet comments etc. I constantly check my phone in the hope he will call — do you think it be wise to unblock him? My gut says its a bad move…the guy is a cheat and lie. With him its always same lie…he needs to get his car fixed, has to do food shopping, going gym and seeing his mates.
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All signs point to it. Hi Nina, I am sorry that you are feeling scared. What makes you think that you are married to a sociopath? I did this and he really threw a fit every single time. He once even raged as I told him that I would like to visit a buddhist monastery for some extended period of time to find some inner peace for myself.
Then he often shouted: I was on here a year ago so confused after mine just up and left me again for no reason after 7 years of marriage I was searching for answers and I was told I was placed in this state of confusion as a tactic but I wanted to know will he ever come back and every site I read it said they always come back I was relieved but y?
In June I attempted to serve him with divorce papers n yes just like I was warned he came back. He was the good version, sober not hitting me and working for once I wanted so bad to make it work.
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He had been cheating on me the prior 6 months with a girl ik and I just had to show her I was the one he loved. After 2 months I was pregnant he said he was happy he continued to be nice but still tried to make me jealous I didnt move him back in but everything was always about how great he was how perfect his body was how good his job was him him him and he made me quit my bartending Job bc only whores bartend so I did. I ended up miscarrying the baby at 14 weeks. I went to the hospital alone on Friday they told me the baby was dead and that if I did not naturally deliver by Monday I would have a DNC I was devastated I cried all night he knew where I was, drove right past the hospital to get to my house n never stopped in.
He was at my home ,well our home, he no longer lived at playing playstation with his friend as I sobbed he said oh well we can have another. I told the nurse I may had flushed the baby n I wanted to go home but I wrapped him up in a towel to show my husband the reality of the life I had lost after carrying him for so long but he was not phased.
I buried the baby and named him for closure. My husband was not around for that either. He was totally unaffected. I called her she said he never said he was married or that he lost a baby how sick. When he caught me in his phone he lied saying she was a family friend n we were going to double date with her bf. All lies but he says he never lies now bc he is changed.
I 4gave him and that was October. For thanksgiving I cooked him a separate dinner for his house, he paid the house payment 2x since I quit my job.
I dropped him off 10 mins later I get a text blaming me 4 his actions stating he wants a divorce. A week later he asked me to dinner I went then again he picked a fight with me.
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I checked his voicemail and the girl he cheated on me last year with was on cm. I was confused again but this is the cycle.